Ever wondered how you create your dream wedding from scratch in six months? Me too.
This is a public diary to spur me on. It's for you too. Everything will be covered until the Big Day - from hens to honeymoons. Enjoy and please get involved. Look out for great guest bloggers too. (My big day may now have passed - I loved every minute - but if your wedding is still to come, read on and enjoy. I'm still adding to the site all the time.)
It's only my humble opinion, but I think I found the best wedding dress designer in London.
I'll blog fully soon on why I chose Christine Kendall, who is based in London, to make my gown. But in short she was head and graceful shoulders above the rest.
As important as her beautiful creations, is her approach to you. There's no sending the order to Hong Kong, sticking rigidly to a pre-made pattern or eye-watering hidden costs.
The concept - that a top designer makes the dress for you - might sound simple enough but as I found, is all too rare.
Over to you Christine.
Finding your dream dress is going to reflect your personal style and is one of the reasons why the choice is so important.
Not only do you have to choose the right silhouette and style for your figure type, fabric and detail too.
This is the time when you will look at yourself in a mirror and analyse every inch of your body, every seam, neckline, hemline and detail on a dress as you have never done before.
A Christine Kendall creation
There is so much choice that you may feel overwhelmed. Be discerning and only go to five bridal designers.
Choose them according to your budget, your styling and the location.
Have a red herring too perhaps a designer out of your location or styling that is not so generic, keeping an open mind.
By choosing just five designers it will help you to focus on the styles that each designer creates, the quality of make, the quality of the fabrics used, the general feel of the establishment and if you would receive value for money.
The personal touch
Know your body shape
When it comes to your first bridal gown selection it can be difficult to know what to choose and knowing your body shape and areas you want to disguise or accentuate will help you.
To give you an example, if you are well proportioned and petite a column dress will give the appearance of lengthening you.
If you have a waist that you would like to disguise and have slim hips and thighs then this silhouette of dress should be in your selection.
A column dress drops straight to the floor in a narrow skirt often falling from a line under the bust.
A fuller curvy figure often looks fantastic in fitted boned bodices with an A line skirt as this shows off an hour glass figure really well, hiding larger thighs under the skirt and controlling the upper body shape.
The Kendall touch
Wear nice underwear that makes you feel good as most wedding dresses need assistance with the buttons or nets and you will may be embarrassed in greying knickers or an old ill fitting bra.
You will want to feel as groomed as you can in the wedding dresses so it is a good idea to prep up with bikini wax and remove underarm hair as it will help you to feel confident and relaxed. Wearing the perfume you plan to on the day will make you feel special too and the scent will linger on the dress.
If you think your hair will be worn off your face try to arrive at the shop/salon with your hair emulating how you plan to wear it on the day.
It doesn't have to be special but the hair, up or down can completely change the look of the dress and help to reflect your style of wedding.
Ooooh, fancy pants
Know the right question
You may be surprised/confused by the language of fabrics and different terminology for silhouettes and face a fast learning curve.
The main question to ask about the fabric used to create the dress is if it is 100% silk.
This will help you to gauge the value of the dress as some dresses that are made in polyester are exuberant in price.
You need to hear the words 100% silk as some fabrics are identified by weave only such as Duchess, because it is a weave only term it can be made in either polyester or silk.
Many sales assistants will tell you that the fabric is Duchess and those not aware assume it is silk. Don't assume and ask if the Duchess is silk and don't let them tell you that the Duchess is the fabric name - you now know better.
It truly is a wonderful time in your life, I wish you joy in your search for your dream dress and remember that the dress is not just for one day. You will see the dress in photographs. And remember how you loved wearing it and you will treasure those memories for a lifetime.
Thank you Christine. When I see you next week, I'll be sure to have defuzzed and will be wearing my finest French knickers!
For more information, do have a look at a selection of Christine's dresses at www.christinekendall.com or say hello on Facebook.